Prostate Play Survey Results

The intention behind this survey is to bring a bit of transparency into the field of prostate play. This community relies a lot on individual experiences, so with this survey I tried to take a more comprehensive approach and get a broader picture across many people. This is the first survey of its kind on the site, and it's very much an experiment.

I'm not a professional statistician or survey researcher, so please take the results in that spirit. That said, I tried my best to keep the survey as unbiased as possible, for example by randomizing the order of answer options and allowing questions to be skipped so no one feels forced into picking something that doesn't fit.

The numbers offer a general overview, but the journey is highly individual, and interpretation is up to you. I can't explain why any particular answer is rated high or low. This is simply the raw data the community provided.

If you have suggestions for improvement, they're always welcome and may be included in a future survey.

Survey Summary

Total Responses

144

Last Updated

5/2/2026

Demographics

Age Range

What is your age?

Experience Length

How long have you been exploring prostate play?

Session Frequency

How often do you practice?

Typical Session Length

What is your average session length?

Practice Context

Do you practice solo or with a partner?

Spectrum view — width shows share of responses; the centre line marks the neutral midpoint.

← Always soloAlways with partner →
24%
72%
  • Always solo (103, 71.5%)
  • Mostly solo (35, 24.3%)
  • Both equally (4, 2.8%)
  • Mostly with partner (2, 1.4%)

Session Preparation

Environment Preference

What is your typical session environment?

Time of Day

What time of day do you typically practice?

Preparation Methods

How do you prepare for sessions?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Cannabis/Substances Use

Do you use cannabis or other substances during sessions?

Spectrum view — width shows share of responses; the centre line marks the neutral midpoint.

← NeverAlways →
8%
60%
11%
8%
11%
  • Never (87, 60.4%)
  • Rarely (12, 8.3%)
  • Sometimes (16, 11.1%)
  • Often (16, 11.1%)
  • Always (12, 8.3%)

Substance Types

What type of substance?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Techniques

Penile Stimulation

Do you combine prostate play with penile stimulation?

Spectrum view — width shows share of responses; the centre line marks the neutral midpoint.

← NeverAlways →
16%
9%
26%
16%
33%
  • Never (13, 9.0%)
  • Rarely (23, 16.0%)
  • Sometimes (48, 33.3%)
  • Often (37, 25.7%)
  • Always (23, 16.0%)

Penile Stimulation Timing

At what point in the session?

Nipple Stimulation

How often do you use nipple stimulation during prostate play?

Spectrum view — width shows share of responses; the centre line marks the neutral midpoint.

← NeverAlways →
24%
31%
17%
8%
19%
  • Never (45, 31.3%)
  • Rarely (35, 24.3%)
  • Sometimes (28, 19.4%)
  • Often (24, 16.7%)
  • Always (12, 8.3%)

Nipple Stimulation Timing

At what point in the session?

Mental Arousal Techniques

What mental arousal techniques do you use during sessions?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Breathing Techniques

Do you practice specific breathing techniques?

39.6%No, but interested
  • Yes, consistently10 (6.9%)
  • Sometimes46 (31.9%)
  • No, but interested57 (39.6%)
  • No31 (21.5%)

Relaxation Importance

How important is relaxation to your practice?

Spectrum view — width shows share of responses; the centre line marks the neutral midpoint.

← Not importantEssential →
7%
41%
16%
36%
  • Not important (10, 6.9%)
  • Somewhat important (52, 36.1%)
  • Very important (59, 41.0%)
  • Essential (23, 16.0%)

Pelvic Floor Exercises

Do you perform pelvic floor exercises (Kegels)?

38.2%Sometimes
  • Yes, regularly25 (17.4%)
  • Sometimes55 (38.2%)
  • No, but interested31 (21.5%)
  • No33 (22.9%)

Experiences

Sensation Types

What types of sensations or orgasms have you experienced?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Super-O Experiences

Have you had Super-O experiences?

66.7%Not yet
  • Yes, consistently4 (2.8%)
  • Yes, occasionally6 (4.2%)
  • Once or twice17 (11.8%)
  • Not yet96 (66.7%)
  • Not sure what qualifies21 (14.6%)

Breakthrough Moment

Have you experienced a 'breakthrough' moment in your practice?

45.1%Not yet
  • Yes46 (31.9%)
  • Not yet65 (45.1%)
  • Not sure33 (22.9%)

Breakthrough Contributors

What do you think contributed to your breakthrough?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Time to First Prostate Orgasm

How long did it take to achieve your first prostate orgasm?

Orgasms Without Toys

Can you achieve prostate orgasms without toys?

48.6%No
  • Yes10 (6.9%)
  • Sometimes8 (5.6%)
  • No70 (48.6%)
  • Not yet attempted46 (31.9%)

Biggest Challenges

What are your biggest challenges in progressing with prostate play?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Learning & Goals

How They Learned

How did you first learn about prostate play?

Most Helpful Resources

What resources have been most helpful?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Primary Goals

What are your primary goals?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

What Would Help Progress

What would most help you progress?

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Interest in Tracking Tools

Would you be interested in a progress tracking tool?

45.8%Yes, very interested
  • Yes, very interested66 (45.8%)
  • Maybe51 (35.4%)
  • No27 (18.8%)

Prostate Health Interest

Do you practice prostate play for health benefits?

67.4%No, only for pleasure
  • Yes, partly47 (32.6%)
  • No, only for pleasure97 (67.4%)

Toys

Toys Owned

Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

Toy Magic Quadrant

Popularity vs. Preference: Which toys are popular favorites vs. hidden gems?

Magic Quadrant: Popularity (ownership count) vs. Preference (ranking score)

How scores work: Ranking scores are calculated using pairwise comparisons. When you rank an item higher, it "wins" against all items you ranked lower, plus all items you didn't rank. Score = (total wins / total comparisons) × 100. This fairly compares items even when users have different collection sizes or rank different numbers of items.

Top Right: Popular Favorites
Top Left: Hidden Gems
Bottom Right: Common but Lower Rated
Bottom Left: Niche/Unpopular

Items by Quadrant:

Popular Favorites:

  • Hismith Premium Sex Machine
  • Njoy Pure Wand
  • Aneros Progasm Jr
  • Lelo Loki Wave
  • Aneros PSY
  • Vixskin Mustang

Hidden Gems:

    Common but Lower Rated:

    • Aneros Helix Syn Trident
    • Fingers only
    • Aneros Progasm
    • Lovense Edge 2
    • Aneros Helix Trident
    • Njoy Pure Plug 2.0
    • Tantus P-Spot
    • Aneros Eupho Trident
    • Aneros Helix Syn V
    • We-Vibe Vector
    • Aneros MGX Trident
    • Aneros Vice 2
    • Lelo Hugo
    • Aneros MGX Syn Trident

    Niche/Unpopular:

    • Aneros Eupho Syn Trident
    • Nexus Revo Stealth
    • Charlie Horse Milk It
    • Vixskin Spur
    • Blush Neo Elite 6.5
    • Bad Dragon Sleipnir
    • Aneros Eupho Syn V
    • plusOne Dual Vibrating Arc
    • Lovense Diamo
    • Bad Dragon Nova
    • Bad Dragon Nox
    • Mr Hankey's Captain Hook
    • Oxballs Ergo
    • Le Wand Hoop

    Positions

    Positions for Prostate Massagers

    Based on the 93 respondents (of 144 total) who selected at least one position in this category. Multiple positions can be picked per respondent, so percentages may sum above 100%.

    • The Standard
      The Standard80 (86.0%)
    • The Pronebone
      The Pronebone28 (30.1%)
    • The Kneeler
      The Kneeler18 (19.4%)
    • The Edger
      The Edger10 (10.8%)

    Positions for Manual Toys

    Based on the 80 respondents (of 144 total) who selected at least one position in this category. Multiple positions can be picked per respondent, so percentages may sum above 100%.

    • The Missionary
      The Missionary70 (87.5%)
    • The Backbender
      The Backbender36 (45.0%)
    • The Pony Tail
      The Pony Tail16 (20.0%)

    Positions for Dildos

    Based on the 40 respondents (of 144 total) who selected at least one position in this category. Multiple positions can be picked per respondent, so percentages may sum above 100%.

    • The Missionary
      The Missionary23 (57.5%)
    • The Rider
      The Rider22 (55.0%)
    • The Stander
      The Stander19 (47.5%)
    • The Kneeler
      The Kneeler12 (30.0%)
    • The Squatter
      The Squatter12 (30.0%)
    • The Rider - Bathtub
      The Rider - Bathtub9 (22.5%)
    • The Squatter - Bathtub
      The Squatter - Bathtub8 (20.0%)

    Positions for Sex Machines

    Based on the 16 respondents (of 144 total) who selected at least one position in this category. Multiple positions can be picked per respondent, so percentages may sum above 100%.

    • The Kneeler
      The Kneeler15 (93.8%)
    • The Missionary
      The Missionary13 (81.3%)
    • The Pronebone
      The Pronebone6 (37.5%)
    • The Standing One
      The Standing One1 (6.3%)

    Position Magic Quadrant

    Popularity vs. Preference: Which positions are popular favorites vs. hidden gems?

    Magic Quadrant: Popularity (ownership count) vs. Preference (ranking score)

    How scores work: Ranking scores are calculated using pairwise comparisons. When you rank an item higher, it "wins" against all items you ranked lower, plus all items you didn't rank. Score = (total wins / total comparisons) × 100. This fairly compares items even when users have different collection sizes or rank different numbers of items.

    Top Right: Popular Favorites
    Top Left: Hidden Gems
    Bottom Right: Common but Lower Rated
    Bottom Left: Niche/Unpopular

    Items by Quadrant:

    Popular Favorites:

    • The Kneeler (Sex Machines)
    • The Missionary (Sex Machines)
    • The Stander (Dildos)
    • The Squatter (Dildos)
    • The Rider (Dildos)
    • The Missionary (Manual Toys)
    • The Pronebone (Prostate Massagers)
    • The Standard (Prostate Massagers)
    • The Kneeler (Dildos)
    • The Backbender (Manual Toys)

    Hidden Gems:

    • The Standing One (Sex Machines)
    • The Pronebone (Sex Machines)

    Common but Lower Rated:

    • The Missionary (Dildos)
    • The Kneeler (Prostate Massagers)
    • The Pony Tail (Manual Toys)
    • The Edger (Prostate Massagers)
    • The Rider - Bathtub (Dildos)

    Niche/Unpopular:

    • The Squatter - Bathtub (Dildos)

    Lubes

    Lubricants Used

    Multiple selections allowed. Percentages may exceed 100%.

    Lubricant Magic Quadrant

    Popularity vs. Preference: Which lubricants are popular favorites vs. hidden gems?

    Magic Quadrant: Popularity (ownership count) vs. Preference (ranking score)

    How scores work: Ranking scores are calculated using pairwise comparisons. When you rank an item higher, it "wins" against all items you ranked lower, plus all items you didn't rank. Score = (total wins / total comparisons) × 100. This fairly compares items even when users have different collection sizes or rank different numbers of items.

    Top Right: Popular Favorites
    Top Left: Hidden Gems
    Bottom Right: Common but Lower Rated
    Bottom Left: Niche/Unpopular

    Items by Quadrant:

    Popular Favorites:

    • Boy Butter
    • Sliquid Sassy
    • Sliquid H2O
    • X-Lube
    • ID Glide

    Hidden Gems:

      Common but Lower Rated:

      • Coconut Oil
      • Astroglide
      • K-Lube

      Niche/Unpopular: