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The Prostate
What It Is: The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland in men, located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum.
Function: It plays a crucial role in the male reproductive system by producing seminal fluid, which nourishes and helps transport sperm during ejaculation.
Location: Because of its proximity to the rectum, the prostate can be accessed and stimulated via the anal canal, leading to pleasurable sensations for some men.
The Prostate Orgasm
An orgasm achieved through prostate stimulation that results in ejaculation without direct penile stimulation. It's often described as more intense than a Hands-Free Orgasm but for some leads to a refractory period. Allowing you to have multiple full body orgasms in a row.
Longer and Stronger
Different sensations
| Feature | Penile Orgasm | Prostate Orgasm |
|---|---|---|
| Duration | Typically shorter (few seconds) | Can last longer, up to several minutes |
| Sensation Location | Concentrated around the genitals | Full-body sensations |
| Intensity | Localized and sharp | Deep, building, and more diffuse |
| Aftereffect | Refractory period | No refractory period. Multiple orgasms possible |
Don't expect a prostate orgasm to feel like a penile orgasm. Imagine the sensation of a deep massage or intense tickling: initially uncomfortable and tender, evoking vulnerability and a reflex to resist. But once there's surrender, it becomes unexpectedly satisfying—an experience of letting go, embracing the intensity instead of resisting.
Types of Prostate Orgasms
Pleasure Waves (P-waves)
While not being exactly an orgasm itself, pleasure waves are the base element of a prostate orgasm. With them, you get intense sensations of pleasure that ripple through the body. These can be precursors to a full prostate orgasm or enjoyable experiences in their own right.
HFWO (Hands-Free Wet Orgasm)
An orgasm achieved through prostate stimulation that results in ejaculation without direct penile stimulation. It's often described as more intense than a Hands-Free Orgasm but for some leads to a refractory period.
HFO (Hands-Free Orgasm)
Similar to HFWO, but without ejaculation. These can be experienced as waves of pleasure throughout the body and can occur multiple times in succession.
Super-O (Super Orgasm)
An extremely intense, full-body orgasmic experience that can last for extended periods. It's often described as a transcendent or out-of-body experience.
How to get one?
It's a long process, and that's the best thing about it!
Average Progression
A typical journey showing steady progress over time
Educate yourself
Learn about the process and techniques
Things you need to know on your journey
🕒 Time & Patience: The journey to achieving a prostate orgasm is unique for everyone! While some might experience it on their first try, others may take months or even years.
💪 Keep Going: Don’t be discouraged if your first attempts don’t succeed. Prostate orgasms evolve and improve over time, offering new sensations and pleasures even after years of experience! This is what makes prostate orgasm so amazing, being surprised over and over by new sensations is probably the best thing about it.
🧠 Rewiring: The process of achieving prostate orgasms involves something often referenced as 'rewiring' your brain and body. This means training yourself to associate prostate stimulation with pleasure and orgasm. However, the term 'rewiring' may be misleading as there are only new neural pathways created, not old ones replaced.
⚠️ No Clear Definitions: The transitions from P-waves to a prostate orgasm or even a super orgasm are fluid and sometimes hard to pinpoint. There is no universal definition of those states. Don't try to chase after them, instead try to focus on your pleasure and enjoy the journey.
The Techniques
What works for one may not work for someone else.
The key is to experiment with different techniques
The Do Nothing Approach
The 'Do Nothing' approach refers to a method used to achieve a prostate orgasm, where the person engaging in prostate stimulation focuses on relaxing and letting the body respond naturally without actively trying to control or force the experience.
Key Elements:
- Letting Go
- Passive Stimulation
Recommended Toys:
- Prostata Massagers
- But Plug
Muscle Contractions
This technique relies on contracting different muscle groups to stimulate the prostate. This includes pelvic floor muscles as well as anal sphincter contractions. There are different strategies on how to get those muscles stimulating your prostate.
Key Elements:
- Controlling and Strengthening muscles
Recommended Toys:
- Prostata Massagers
- But Plug
Manual Stimulation
This approach involves directly stimulating the prostate with either a finger, a prostate massager or a dildo inserted through the rectum.
Key Elements:
- Pressure
- Movement
- Precision
Recommended Toys:
- Dildo
- Fuck Machine
External Perineum Stimulation
This method involves stimulating the prostate externally by applying pressure to the perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus). While it may not be as direct as internal stimulation, some men find it highly pleasurable. This technique works great as a complementary method alongside other techniques, adding an extra layer of stimulation to enhance the overall experience.
Recommended Toys:
- Specific Prostate Messagers
- Specific Cock Rings
Each technique can be done 100% toyless
However, toys can solve different aspects of the journey
Comfort & Precision
Designed for extended use and accurate prostate targeting
Hands-free & Vibration
Allows relaxation and provides unique stimulation
Consistency
Maintains steady pressure and movement
Exploration
Variety of toys for diverse sensations
The Toys
Below you'll find a selection of common toys used for different techniques.
Use the Toys Section to find out more about toys and where to get started.
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
A hands-free prostate massager with an ergonomic design suitable for both beginners and experienced users. While there are other great Aneros variants like the new Aneros PSY, the Helix Syn remains an excellent starting point for most users.
Recommended Techniques:
Essential Tips
- Always use plenty of water-based lubricant
- Take your time and never force insertion
- Take time to learn muscle control techniques
- Clean toys thoroughly before and after use
- Store toys separately to prevent material reactions
- Listen to your body and stop if you experience any discomfort
The recipe to success
A prostate orgasm is a product of smaller elements
Arousal
Relaxation
Stimulation
Expectations
Control
Physical Discomfort
Tension
Elements That Drive Pleasure
Arousal is probably the most important element for a prostate orgasm. While there are various ways to enhance it, remember that arousal isn't something you can force. Some days, you'll find yourself easily excited, while other times, it might be a challenge. Many men discover that taking a break from porn and masturbation for a few days naturally boosts their arousal levels.
Pornography
Pornography can be a powerful tool for arousal, but it's crucial to approach it mindfully in the context of prostate stimulation. While it can quickly elevate arousal levels, visual stimuli can sometimes divert attention from the subtle physical sensations, especially when you're just starting out. Try a few sessions without porn and see how it feels.
Erotic Audios
Erotic audios offer a unique advantage over visual pornography. They allow you to focus entirely on physical sensations without visual distractions and immerse yourself in the experience, allowing your mind to relax. There also exist erotic audios that incorporate relaxation techniques. You can find a wide range of audios on reddit r/gonewildaudio.
Imagination
Just using your imagination is another approach either exclusively or in combination with other techniques. As prostate orgasms are very different from traditional orgasms and are more a mind game than a physical one, it is important to bring the right images to your mind.
There are some general thoughts that many have found helpful:
- Try thinking about not wanting to cum (this can paradoxically increase arousal)
- Visualize your prostate being touched and stimulated to better connect with the sensations
Elements That Block Pleasure
Trying to force the experience with thoughts like "Now it's happening" or "With this it will work" can hinder your progress. The key is to accept what ever comes and enjoy whatever you feel.
FAQ
What's the best way for beginners to start exploring prostate stimulation?
Beginners should start slowly, using plenty of lubricant and small, specially designed prostate toys. It's important to relax, take your time, and focus on pleasure rather than achieving a specific goal. Communication with a partner, if involved, is also crucial.
Is prostate stimulation gay?
No, prostate stimulation is not gay or straight. Sexual practices and preferences do not determine sexual orientation. Many heterosexual men enjoy prostate stimulation, and it's a personal choice that has nothing to do with sexual orientation. What matters is that you're comfortable and enjoying yourself, regardless of your sexual orientation.
I don't feel anything during prostate stimulation. What am I doing wrong?
It's common for beginners to not feel much at first. It takes time for your body to get used to this new form of stimulation. There are several factors that can make it difficult to feel pleasure:
- You might not be relaxed enough - tension can make it difficult to feel pleasure.
- You may not have found the right spot - the prostate can be tricky to locate at first.
- You might need more time - some people need regular practice to become sensitive to prostate stimulation.
- You may need to experiment with different techniques or toys.
I experience Hands-Free Orgasms (HFO) but not Hands-Free Wet Orgasms (HFWO). How can I achieve HFWO?
Everyone is different. For some, it's easier to get a HFWO; for others, it's the HFO that works. Also, for many of those that can get a HFWO, it often leads to a refractory period.
So don't be discouraged if reaching a HFWO doesn't work for you at all. There are a few things you can try and experiment with:
- Experiment with different techniques and toys.
- Try edging to build up arousal before prostate stimulation.
A good indicator of a HFWO coming directly from your prostate and not just by indirect penis stimulation is a slow release of sperm welling out of your penis.
I experience Hands-Free Wet Orgasms (HFWO) but not Hands-Free Orgasms (HFO). How can I achieve HFOs?
If you only get HFWO and those HFWO lead to a refractory period, you can try the following things:
- Ensure you're fully relaxed and in a comfortable environment. A HFWO is ultimately induced by contractions of the pelvic floor muscles. Especially at the beginning of the journey, those muscle contractions can lead to a more traditional ejaculation similar to those during a penile orgasm.
- Avoid any kind of stimulation of the penis. Even the smallest contact can lead to a penile orgasm. If for example you prefer lying on your stomach try to find a position where the penis is not touching anything.
How can I achieve a Super-O? I'm struggling to reach that level of pleasure.
The Super-O is an advanced level of prostate pleasure. Some people never reach it, some people reach it multiple times. This wide range of experiences may be due to several factors:
- Some people are just more relaxed than others and find it much easier to let go and give up control.
- Some people are just more sensitive to stimulation than others.
- Some people just define a Super-O differently than others. There is no universal definition of what a Super-O is, and for some, intense pleasure waves are enough to reach a Super-O, while others are looking for something more.
Don't get caught up in the idea of a Super-O as the end goal. It's 100% about the journey and the experiences you have on the way.
My body/legs shake during prostate stimulation, especially when it feels really good. Is this normal?
Note: Like all content on this site, the following information is based on community experiences and personal reports and should not be considered as medical advice.
Many people in the prostate play community report experiencing shaking or trembling, particularly when starting their journey. A common theory in the community suggests this happens because your body is experiencing unfamiliar types of pleasure.
What many experienced practitioners report:
- The shaking typically becomes less intense as your body gets more accustomed to the sensations
- However, you might still experience tensing or shaking when reaching new pleasure heights
How to handle the shaking:
- Option 1: "Surrender" - Let the shaking happen naturally as part of the experience
- Option 2: Active Relaxation - Consciously try to relax your muscles. While this might temporarily decrease the pleasure intensity, the sensations usually return once your body adjusts
Choose what feels most comfortable for you in the moment.